{"id":9735,"date":"2026-02-10T12:55:43","date_gmt":"2026-02-10T12:55:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/?p=9735"},"modified":"2026-02-10T12:55:43","modified_gmt":"2026-02-10T12:55:43","slug":"zgjedhja-e-vetme-qe-kemi-ne-kontroll","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/2026\/02\/10\/zgjedhja-e-vetme-qe-kemi-ne-kontroll\/","title":{"rendered":"Zgjedhja e vetme q\u00eb kemi n\u00eb kontroll"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>Frym\u00ebzuar nga mendimet e Epiktetit dhe filozofia stoike<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb duket gjithmon\u00eb e paq\u00ebndrueshme, lajmet ndryshojn\u00eb \u00e7do minut\u00eb, njer\u00ebzit nxitohen, planet ndryshojn\u00eb, nj\u00eb pyetje mbetet e thjesht\u00eb, por thelb\u00ebsore: \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet n\u00eb dor\u00ebn ton\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Filozofia stoike e Epiktetit na m\u00ebson se jo \u00e7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e kontrollueshme, por ata q\u00eb mund t\u2019i menaxhojm\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7muar. Nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb motin, vonesat, apo mendimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Por mund t\u00eb zgjedhim si reagojm\u00eb, si i perceptojm\u00eb situatat, dhe si veprojm\u00eb ndaj tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur di\u00e7ka shkon keq, nj\u00eb debat, nj\u00eb humbje, nj\u00eb vones\u00eb, zem\u00ebrimi apo ankthi nuk do ta ndryshojn\u00eb ngjarjen. Por qart\u00ebsia se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb jasht\u00eb kontrollit ton\u00eb na jep paqe dhe na mund\u00ebson t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohemi te ajo q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndikojm\u00eb: mendimet dhe veprimet tona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stoicizmi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00ebrheqje nga jeta, por aft\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb realitetin pa mjegull, p\u00ebr t\u00eb dalluar \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsojm\u00eb dhe \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb pranojm\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm kur pranojm\u00eb kufijt\u00eb e jasht\u00ebm, mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb brendshme: veten ton\u00eb, qet\u00ebsin\u00eb ton\u00eb, forc\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb vepruar me men\u00e7uri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si\u00e7 thon\u00eb edhe ata q\u00eb ndjekin rrug\u00ebn e rikuperimit:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cDh\u00ebnia e qet\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pranuar \u00e7far\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshoj,<br>Guximi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar at\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshoj,<br>Dhe men\u00e7uria p\u00ebr t\u00eb dalluar midis tyre.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb fund t\u00eb dit\u00ebs, liria nuk gjendet duke kontrolluar bot\u00ebn, por duke kontrolluar vetveten. Kush e kupton k\u00ebt\u00eb dallim, ka gjetur paqen q\u00eb shumica e njer\u00ebzve e k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn.<em><br><\/em><br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Frym\u00ebzuar nga mendimet e Epiktetit dhe filozofia stoike N\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb q\u00eb duket gjithmon\u00eb e paq\u00ebndrueshme, lajmet ndryshojn\u00eb \u00e7do minut\u00eb, njer\u00ebzit nxitohen, planet ndryshojn\u00eb, nj\u00eb pyetje mbetet e thjesht\u00eb, por thelb\u00ebsore: \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet n\u00eb dor\u00ebn ton\u00eb? Filozofia stoike e Epiktetit na m\u00ebson se jo \u00e7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e kontrollueshme, por ata q\u00eb mund t\u2019i<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9736,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[56],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9735","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-magazine"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9735","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9735"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9735\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9737,"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9735\/revisions\/9737"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9736"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blingmagazine.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}